perceptivis:

muns of rp blogs are allowed to have close friends. 

let me say that again, because I don’t think people seem to understand this: 

MUNS OF RP BLOGS ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE CLOSE FRIENDS!!!!!

muns are allowed to decide they want to make a group of blogs with their friends!!!! muns are allowed to match themes / icons / what have you with their friends because they’re friends. muns are allowed to prioritize threads with their friends because they’re friends. muns are allowed to do what they want to do with their friends. 

people have anxiety. people have other mental illnesses that make it difficult to talk to strangers. maybe people don’t want to talk to strangers in the first place and just want to have fun with their friends. this alone doesn’t make someone toxic / abusive / whatever the fuck, it just means that they have friends that they like.  

all of you who seem to have a problem with this mindset and insist that people having fun —— which is literally the only reason any of us write in the first place —— is wrong because it doesn’t include you need to take a step back and consider why this bothers you so much. it’s an entitled mindset at best, and legitimately toxic / absusive behavior at worst once you choose to attack someone to the point where you drive them off a blog because of it.